Monday, March 9, 2009

Time to Rant a lil.....

Ok, so lately I've been noticing something that I'm not too happy about. Well happy or unhappy... I just find it interesting if nothing else.

Why is it that older guys (men over the age of 35) feel that they need to offer younger guys things such as gifts, movies, dinner, money, etc. And in return for that, they need sex? But its out of nowhere, lmao. Like I get a message from this man one day talking about "you're so sexy, I would love to meet you and take you out for dinner/a movie my treat." At first I wasn't going to respond, but I thought it over and I was curious as to why this random man wanted to do that for me. So I asked him, "Why do you want to do that?" He responded that he would like to "Chill with you and take it from there." So of course I know what this means. The infamous "chill" and see what happens, or take it from there, or whatever happens happens, all means ONE thing. "I wanna get you naked and have sexual relations." Something I was not, or am not interested in with this man. So I tell him, "Oh aiight, that's cool, but I have no interest in having sex with you." And you know what he says???? Absolutely nothing, lmao. Not a word, and I just laughed. It was a mess. Like really?? Was I supposed to take dinner and a movie and go back to his place and drop draws because he spent...$30 bucks on me? No amount of money is enough to drop on the table and just expect me to give up the goodies, lol. I'm no escort.

But another part of the situation that I don't understand is, why is it only older men who do that? DO you reach a point in your life where you feel you can't pull anyone anymore, and you have to revert to the next best thing? Money for some loving? And do younger guys feel that they have the youth and the body that an actual date isn't necessary? I guess. Will I be subjected to shoveling out money when I feel I can no longer cut it in the gay lifestyle? That would really suck.... Like a lot. Lol. Gotta start taking vitamins so I can stay sexy for an eternity!... Or least until I'm 40, lmao. 30's the new 20, so who knows!

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